Posts Tagged ‘gay’

And neither will dating four girls at a time for that matter.

So I know a few homosexual guys in my school. And they know they’re homosexual. I know they’re homosexual. I think EVERYBODY know’s they’re homosexual.

But for some reason, they like to live in this bubble where they want to pretend they’re not and hope everyone else will just go along with it.

One of these guys  is my friend. And he told me last year that he was gay.

And I thought, ‘Okay, well, not surprising, I’ve been suspecting that for a while now’.

What I think I actually told him was, “That’s fine, accept yourself, and everyone will accept you.”

Which I thought was a pretty nice thing to say.

Anyways, these days, he’s completely ignoring his orientation. He plunged himself into religious activities and is telling himself and others that homosexuality is wrong, disgusting, etc.

And now, he’s even making crude comments about girls!

My friend, who was once so respectful, and so polite, is now making remarks about a girl’s sexy ass and fine body even though when he says he it, he might as well be talking about the weather, that’s how UN-excited he sounds when he says it.

And you know, being his friend and all, I tried to talk some sense into him, saying that maybe he should get over himself and admit what he is and just take himself for who he is and all.

And he accused me of being so focused that he’s one thing and he doesn’t have to be something that he doesn’t want to be.

-Insert me throwing my hands up in the air-

Fine. Frankly, it doesn’t make a difference to me whether he prefers a penis or a vagina. But he can keep his awkward and pathetic crude comments to himself.

Oh, and another one.

This guy, I don’t know him too well, he’s like a friend of a friend.

Acts gay, talks to guys a lot, GIGGLES, and might as well just write on his forehead that he’s gay.

(and he’s actually kind of cute..)

And he has like 4 different girlfriends in 4 different schools.

Well, according to the rumors (which I know I shouldn’t believe but imagine it was true anyways?)

Now why would a gay guy date four girls at once?

To convince himself he’s not gay.



Interesting title huh? There’s a total story behind it too (isn’t there always?”

So my parents signed me up for some sat prep in my school. Initially I wouldn’t have been a fan but during the teenage years with parents that think its their lives, not your’s, you don’t have much choices. Besides, I wasn’t too upset when I heard that my friend was enrolled in it too. Because you know, everything is better with friends around of course. I couldn’t possibly go to some boring prep class alone. (Well actually I could but it’s possible I may get ill from all the boredom).

Anyways, first day was on Tuesday, after school. And our tutor was young, maybe in his early twenties. Really smart and friendly. Hmm, it feels like I’m missing something.. oh that’s right, he was cute! And I’m not the only one who noticed. The other girls were clearly a lot more excited about the class after they took a look at the tutor. I was actually a bit more casual about it, considering my friend absolutely could not get over how “completely cute” he was.

But yeah, everyone knew from the start that he was cute. It wasn’t until half way through the class that we started to realize that maybe he might be homosexual.

Well, I don’t know about anybody else in the class, but I was thinking it the minute I saw him standing with a hand resting on his hip and looking at a math problem with his head tilted. It was more of a hint. And I told myself that I could not just judge a person like that the first time I meet them. But then as the class went on, the tutor seemed to reveal more hints of his homosexuality- not that I was paying extra attention or anything.

He would throw his hands up in the air and say, “Awesome,” whenever a student answered a question correctly. And he was energetic, and sympathetic to the kids who didn’t understand. A very nice tutor. He smiled almost all the time, even when he was trying to be strict and he was always encouraging. However, at the end of the class when all the students got together to talk, we all agreed that the signs were positive- he was gay.

Not that it changed anything- he’s an amazing tutor and a really nice person.

It just puts a tiny little dent into the fact that all the girls were hyped that they got the “super cute tutor”.